This is a lesson to those women who want a house boy or girl at all cost just to pose as maddam.Some of them dont even work anywhere,they just want the man to get them a house help so that they can have time to walk about and gossip with fellow useless friends.When you ask some of them why get a house help,they tell you so so person whom is my friend has one,and the job in the house is not easy,do you want me to die early due to house work?Now tell me,these people we employe as house helps.what type of job do they do that a normal responsible woman cannot do? is it cleaning your house? washing clothes for yourself kids and husband? cooking? i mean our mordern nigerian women are just missing it, in europe and america,who are you to have a help? you must be seriously rich to have one,and women in europe work,yet they cant afford one.Nigerian women too who also introduce alot of useless laws against women in nigeria,never enlighten the women on how to be a real woman in a mans house.How not to push the husbands to getting house maid or house boys.
Look at it now, either the house boy defile the daughters in the house,or oga begin to sleep with house girl,or maddam with house boy,or the house boy or girl arrange for robbers to rob the house,or they run away with their gold and properties.All these are the causes of house boy and girls which is a steady occurance in nigeria. People learn from others,dont wait until it happens to you.
Secondly i think a law against rape should be passed.Just like in america and europe.Even some asia countries e.g india has a law that if you rape a woman or girl and it is confirmed,you go to jail for 15years no bail.When such a law is passed,that useless man who doesn’t have money to pay prostitutes will look for one woman to marry who will satisfy him.When we have lots of single women in nigeria.Or you mean to say that you dont know how to talk to women,put know how to deceive little kids and rape them? a useless man will always be a useless man.